There virtually isn't a person alive, who doesn't want or appreciate getting or receiving a gift from someone, especially when that gift is something desired strongly or needed. The gifts that we give and the gifts that we receive vary depending upon all sorts of circumstances in regards to such things as who we are, our age, and the gift givers themselves. In this world, based upon our upbringing, tradition, and all the commercial advertising of all sorts that we come across day-by-day, the giving of gifts follows a pretty standard set of rules, of which, foremost amongst them is that gift giving is considered to be an obligation, sort of, as a way of expressing your love or affection from one person to another which is demonstrated in practicality by the gift itself.
There are, however, many, many people that often simply do not have the means to provide the desired gifts to others, and then because of this lack, are unfairly brushed with the aura of unconcern or uncaring. This is most unfortunate, because usually the desire to please another with an appropriate gift is there, but the monetary means to do so, are sorely lacking.
Yet, through it all, there is something fundamentally out of sorts in many aspects of gift giving and that is the fact that material gifts are actually seldom the best gift of them all. The thing about gifts of the material kind, is that even if wholly appreciated, that initial rush of feeling, that initial rush of appreciation, will invariably fade over time, so that even if the gift is something as expensive and impressive as a brand new car, one day that car will not be so new, it will be surpassed by many another car, and over time, it will fade, get tarnished, and become just another car, and while definitely appreciated, the car itself and typically your feelings for it, will have definitely depreciated. That, in a nutshell, is the issue with all tangible gifts which is that all of them will invariably lose their luster and their utility, no matter how much they were initially appreciated.
Then there is another type of gift, a gift more meaningful than others, a gift that allows a man of any material worth, to match a man with ten thousand times that worth, and that gift is the gift of your sincere concern for another expressed through human contact. Sometimes, the nice present beautifully wrapped for a good friend or loved one is the expedient way to provide something tangible to someone, and thereby does not demand much of anything from the giver other than money and a little forethought, whereas in actuality, what has been circumvented is the truly important thing, which is a meaningful conversation, a dialogue, a meeting of the minds, and simply time spent together.
None of us can take any of our material gifts with us to the next world, meaning that at best, we appreciated these gifts while here on earth, whereas there are indeed gifts that transcend space and time, and those gifts are love, respect, empathy, concern, patience, and sincere communication. When we take the time to listen to others, to help to guide others, to mentor others, to be a good neighbor to others, to be there for others in times of their trouble and stress, to sacrifice our free time to be of service to others, and to will the good of another, this is when we have stepped out of our small little finite world and have stepped into something of far greater expanse, into a world without end, and have provided the best gift of all: love, expressed in all of its many splendors.