People search for love and meaning in all sorts of places, activities, and things, as well as in their relationship and their interaction with their fellow human beings. Some of those people, for instance, do find that love and meaning through the uniting of their cause with something that matches their calling, or some find it with their love of spouse and family, or some through their love of country, and some through the meaning of the work that they so do. Still, there are many people that don't really find any of those things to be completely satisfactory; or, find that within that union of love for job, or family, or activity, that though there is much good in such, they also find disappointment, loss, hurt, and even rejection. Further there are those, that aren't able to find much of anything in this world that provides them with any lasting happiness or meaning. In short, many people want to love and to be loved, and want to find meaning and real purpose in life, but are not fully successful in such.
It isn't so much that people are searching for that love and meaning in all of the wrong places, but rather it is that the characteristics of that of which we desire to unite with, is typically itself, imperfect; and in consideration that we too are imperfect, this often results thereby in the frustration of mankind's best laid plans, not coming to that desired fruition, thereof. This signifies, that the fundamental flaw with one's desire to unite fully with someone else or to some cause, is the fact that our aim in such, is not as high as it really should and ought to be. In other words, there is only one being that is perfect, inerrant, omniscient, and immutable, and that is God.
This indicates that those that are sincerely searching for truth, love, and meaning, need to direct their eyes upon the prize that is beyond all other prizes, and therefore through that unity with that one prize they will thereby end all of their sorrows. Yet, so many people though professing their love or appreciation of God, are reluctant to wholeheartedly actually demonstrate in their thoughts and in their actions their adherence to what that so entails; perhaps because they are too enchanted in this present world with one thing or another, or devoted, or enthralled, or loyal, or addicted to such; and thereby have no desire to let go of that of which they already have in order to find that lasting union that will bring peace and wholeness.
It isn't that our love for one another or our devotion to this or that is necessarily wrong or misguided, for in truth, that which is beneficial for one another, as well as those activities so done for the benefit of mankind are right, necessary, and good. Rather, as good as this may be, it is incorrect to see such as the end of the story, but rather this should more properly be seen as the pathway that thereby provides the impetus for our enlightenment so that we will subsequently find our way to our unification with that which actuated us in the first place, and who has been patiently awaiting since then for our triumphant return.