Look, it has to be said, while selfishness has its place, quite obviously, if everybody were primarily selfish, this would make for a very troubling society, because a healthy society is built around the need for trust, cooperation, and also a willingness to lend a helping hand to one another, because in the end, we are all in this together, so we all ought to work together so as to achieve worthwhile things. Indeed, as much as some people want to believe that everything that they achieved came from their own individual effort, and thus they are deserving of everything that comes their way, they really need to be mindful that along that journey, connections and friends have been made which have contributed to that success and to ignore that fact, belittles those contributions and is inconsiderate to those that were part and parcel to a given person’s success.
So too, to live in any society in which it essentially comes down to a dog-eats-dog type of mindset, is going to be very bad for that society, because relentless competition and selfishness in everything makes for a society that has no inherent cohesion and, further to the point, makes for a society that is not capable of building real trust one with another. A better society is a society that recognizes not only the worth of the other, but actively wants to cooperate and to work with the other, especially considering that each of us has capabilities as well as limitations, and thus finding those that are good with that which represents a weakness for us, and vice versa, makes for a more successful and more balanced society.
In this world, we will be challenged, but there isn’t any reason when a challenge comes our way, that we can’t lean upon those that are quite capable of helping us in vanquishing and thus overcoming that challenge, which is one of the salient reasons why we ought to be less self-centered and more of a mind that others not only bring talent to the table of life, but are oftentimes quite willing to lend us a hand, for the overall satisfaction in seeing that they helped to make us a better person for having seen us accomplished something of merit.
Indeed, it could be said that in as many instances as reasonably possible, society would be appreciably better off by structuring more of the things that we interact with that necessitate cooperation between people, as opposed to structuring activities in a manner in which we have to compete against one another. While competition has its place, it has to be acknowledged that societies that are overly fixated upon competition are the same that lend themselves to exploitation, uncaring, greed, selfishness, entitlement, and so on, which are the type of characteristics that a prudent society would desire to see reduced. So then, we as a people aren’t really a people if we see one another as something to fear or conquer from a competitive standpoint, as opposed to a desire to bond with one another, so as to collectively strengthen ourselves.