While there are still a fair amount of people that live in very small towns, and thereby almost by definition, know their neighbor, by virtue of the fact that the smaller the town the more that there is a need to know one’s neighbor, because there are going to be those trying times when they need to draw upon their assistance in one form or another, along with the salient fact that those that know one another, typically do a better job in looking out for one another.
Nowadays, most of us live in fairly large communities in which there is a tendency to be about one’s own personal business and also because we have commitments and obligations to attend to, we believe that we don’t therefore have any real extra time to know or to bother with our immediate community, which makes for the type of community in which there may well be a lot of people that if they knew one another would find their commonality, but since they don’t bother to be a part of the community, this means that no connection is ever made.
Look, it has to be said, that the best communities are going to be those that have people that are engaged in activities that are positive for that community, by for instance, volunteering, collaborating with others, or taking the time to help those in the community, which is all based around the foundation that they want to live in a community where people know and value one another, because by doing so, it makes for a more cohesive community, which thereby is safer and more pleasant.
This signifies that in order to have a better community, as many people as possible, need to take some time out of their busy personal lives, to engage with others through events, through support, through cookouts, and through their desire to be of aid one to another, because each of us brings something to the table of talents, and those that are good at particular things can bring that skillset to use, so that the community as a whole will benefit.
So too, a community that is engaged with one another is the same type of community that will focus not just upon keeping things stable, but also making it their point to bring improvement where things can be improved upon, as well as encouraging suggestions or ideas that can be considered which will make things even better, for there are lots of programs, both community funded or governmental funded that are there for the asking. Indeed, that which makes a given community better is also going to make our lives better, along with the fact that a community that believes in one another is going to be there for one another when troubling events occur, because not only are they better prepared, but also because they are going to be more coordinated in taking actions where action is needed.
In sum, good communities don’t just occur through happenstance, but rather they occur because the members of that community have made a conscious choice to see that their community is a good community by doing their fair part to make it so.