It is surprising to see headlines in a respected national newspaper or national media outlet that state, for example: "Tim Cook: Apple CEO comes out as gay", in which one can easily question the relevancy of such an admission or the newsworthiness of the item itself in the first place. At least in Tim Cook's case, there is some relevancy, as he goes on to say that being gay has allowed him to feel a: "…deeper understanding of what it means to be in the minority" and "…more empathetic". However, my complaint with these sorts of headlines is that you never see a headline that reads: "John Doe of Mega-corporation is heterosexual," I mean why not? I suppose most people would answer that since this is the norm that consequently this isn't news, but I'm not convinced that a person's sexual orientation is relevant to the business world or most public-forum environments in the first place because sexual activities are typically quite private, no matter the given orientation.
The fundamental point is that if a person's given sexual orientation is not germane to the work that they perform, and in most instances it certainly is not, it shouldn't be discussed in an admired and credible media outlet, because it isn't relevant to the subject at hand. There is no merit in "outing" someone when it has little or no significance to that person's public life. What adults do behind closed doors sexually should be their own private business and nobody else's.
Most people do not or would not care to be defined via a headline as per their sexual orientation, because although sex may be an important part of their life, it is typically a very private part of their life, and necessarily so. Therefore what should define a man via a headline is in fact, their public persona, the way that they represent themselves through their employment, through their charity, or through their public activities. There are very few people who upon being introduced to you in a public forum, would say something to the effect, "Hi, nice to meet you, I'm gay," mainly because it would be considered to be a faux pas.
There should be a limit to what isn't or what is considered relevant and appropriate for being reported through the media and not everything that one becomes aware of should be considered to be fair game. The problem that too many media outlets have is their wanton race to the bottom, to expose the most dirt, the most titillating, the most salacious news items and the most negative things that they can find out about a given person, without ever really considering the consequences or the purpose of such "news".
All of us should be much more concerned about the content of their own character, as opposed to being concerned about surface/shallow things or activities of others that are done with discretion and conducted in private. A man, any man, should be able to take off his hat at the end of the day, and just be able to relax in his own domain, and his own castle, and not have to worry that the barbarians are not just at the gate but actually have overridden it.