We live in a different age in which for many a person, communicating in-person has taken a back seat to memes, social media, text messaging, and things of that ilk, as if whatever has gotten our exclusive attention on our cell phone, trumps all. There is nothing worse than seeing people who are at a restaurant, in which, it is assumed that they like one another and who want to be together, but who aren’t actually having a conversation with the party that they are with, for rather they are each busily involved endlessly scrolling on their phones. To believe, somehow, that whatever is going on with our cell phone is somehow always more important than in-person human interaction is to get what life is about, fundamentally wrong.
The thing about cell phones is that the most appropriate way to deal with such is to see our phone as a versatile tool that can provide us with an online encyclopedia, along with contact with our friends or work, take pictures, keep up-to-date on events that interest us, provide us with entertainment, while also serving as an emergency tool should we find ourselves in a situation in which we feel quite uncomfortable or are lost. Indeed, cell phones can provide us with a lot of aid and pretty much represent something that has considerable value, but we do so find that certain people treat their cell phones as if it is, the be-all and end-all of their existence, and therein lies the rub.
It has to be acknowledged, that there are those situations in which too much of a good thing is no longer good for us, such as way too much dessert at one time, for once we get well beyond moderation and suffer from a lack of self-control, we can find ourselves seemingly addicted to stuff that really isn’t worth all our time and energy, and thereby to do so is to our detriment. So then, those who become habitually attached to their phone, need to recognize that there are other things that life consists of, besides what is on their screen, and if they lack the self-discipline to do anything constructive about it, they need to recognize that if they are unable to regain control, that they will hurt themselves by putting front and center their online phone interactions, above family, friends, work, and other in-person social interactions.
While we can applaud the genius behind cell phones and the applications that go with such, it has to be acknowledged that this thus serves to entice far too many people to see whatever that is happening on their phone to be the most important thing, even when it really isn’t. So then, there is a need to take the time to evaluate as to whether our lives are actually better for all the time that we spend on the phone, or whether by the indiscriminate usage of such, we have done so to our lasting harm. That is to say, at the end of the day, we need to understand better that having our eyes solely on our cell phone basically signifies that we have traded real life for an artificial construct, and in that, we have lost what we could have more of, which is all the advantages represented by healthy human interaction.